Hints and Help for Homework
Here are 10 guidelines I've adapted from Lee Canter's Help! It's Homework
Time.
- Schedule a time for homework
- Have a quiet study area
- Have all necessary materials on hand (pens, pencils, paper, etc.)
- Keep all the homework in one spot
- Parent emphasizes that homework is important
- Let the student know that the parent is proud of their hard work
- Don't hesitate to call the teacher
- Parent should take an interest in the homework
- Consider using a homework contract
- Check the student's assignment calendar
Here is some more information about homework from Michael Kassel, author of
Study Skills for Kids.
Consistency
Consistency is the key to this entire program.
Indeed, there is no such thing as the perfect
study skills method, except that the best
method is one that is consistently applied.
This means studying at consistent times, in a
consistent place, with a consistent set of skills.
On Television & Studying
When your Child says, "Mom, I study better
watching TV," that really means they have
more fun watching TV while they sneak in a
problem or two between commercials. There is
no evidence that suggests a child studies better
while watching TV, and a whole lot of experts
who say it's a distraction.
Let's face it -- TV is inherently more
interesting than homework, and your child's
attention will be drawn away from his or her
work...bottom line -- No TV!
Getting Organized
Organization is not just a way of keeping
things in place, but the logical extension of the
way your child studies. When I meet a student
who fumbles for his or her papers in an
overstuffed, unorganized book bag, he or she
is usually a poor student. The sloppy manner
in which the student keeps track of his or her
notes seems to reflect the sloppy manner in
which he or she organizes thoughts (although
there are many exceptions to this rule, Albert
Einstein being one of them).
The best students I have encountered are
organized all the way down to the way they
carry their materials. While your child may
certainly be another Einstein, let's go from the
rationale that organization and neatness never
hurt anybody .
Homework
Your kids probably think homework is a form
of punishment, but it's actual purpose is to
reinforce material they have learned in class,
which is particularly important in math,
science, English and social science.
Indeed, while children learn a great deal in the
classroom, they reinforce what they have
learned by practicing it through homework.
The idea behind homework is quite simple: "If
you do something long enough, with as much
variety as possible, you will begin to learn it."
Just as practice makes perfect for sports, it
makes perfect for learning.
Parental Help With Homework
While you may be tempted to help your child
with his or her homework, you are best to let
your child work it on his or her own. Later,
you can check the work, as well as question
any solutions that appear incorrect. Under no
circumstances, however, should you work a
problem for your child. While this sounds like
common sense, it is very tempting, particularly
when your child is tired and frustrated.
When your child encounters a problem he or
she cannot complete, try to get your child to
think about the problem. Find a similar
problem he or she answered successfully, and
ask your child how that problem is similar to
the stumper. Then ask, "How is it different?"
Keep in mind that homework assignments are
grouped around basic skills that have either
been previously mastered or explained very
recently. Thus, the book itself, or the chapter
upon which a worksheet is based, will have
some clues as to how to answer or solve the
problem. Your child needs to refer back and
look for the similarities and differences in
order to apply the skills. In that way, your
child is not just learning a formula, but,
indeed, learning to think.
Reading Comprehension
I have taught and read a great deal about
reading strategies and have found, among the
many ideas, what I consider to be the best way
to increase reading comprehension as it applies
to text books. Though this method has gone
by many names, I prefer the term "Mapping,"
a technique which gives the reader a clue as to
where they are going before they begin.
First, you must understand that there is a
difference between text books and general
reading material. Text books are those
designed for specific subjects and courses, and
include a broad range of subject information
arranged around examples, vocabulary,
concepts, terms, and homework assignments.
General reading books are those fiction and
non-fiction books that look at a story or
specific subject in detail. Text books have very
strict guidelines they follow in format and
tone, while general reading books are limitless
in the way they are written and stylized.
Because text books are so heavily formatted,
they are actually easier to read, so we will deal
with those first.
But first, an important fact -- text books are
incredibly boring. Indeed, as noted above,
they are boring by design. Text books are
about great information, not great writing.
Thus, if your child feels strange because he or
she is bored by the text, you can set your
child's mind at ease by explaining that most
children are bored by such books.
Children approach textbooks like a fight --
they lead with their chin and go in punching,
tiring themselves from frustration. Some kids
can approach a text like this and come away
with a pretty good understanding, but many
kids can't. They need a strategy to get the most
out of a book, and that is where mapping
comes in.
Ask your child to think of a text book not so
much as an end-to-end string of words, but as
a series of places within a large storehouse of
information. Rather than simply read the text,
your child should begin by becoming familiar
with it, one chapter -- or one section,
depending on the assignment...
Test Preparation
As far as I am concerned, there are three types
of test reviews. The first type is what I call
Non-existent. The student never reviews his
or her homework or previous tests or readings
and just hopes against hope to give back the
right responses on the test. A very small
percent of students -- known as auditory
learners (students who learn and memorize by
merely listening), may do well like this, but
they are few and far between.
The second type of review is what I call
Passive. In this case the student will glance
over his or her notes once or twice, perhaps
re-read a chapter or a section, and then go on
to the test. This is a bit better than no
preparation at all, yet it hardly ensures
success. I call it passive because that is exactly
what it is -- the student reads the material and
hopes it sinks in, yet does nothing to help the
knowledge become absorbed.
The third type of review -- the preferred type --
is called Active. Not only does the student
review the material through sight, but through
re-writing as well as speaking the material
aloud. These are the students who will rewrite
any notes they may have, construct lists, use
flash cards, and recite material. This is the best
method because it models how we memorize
and maintain memorized information.
Test Anxiety
While you certainly want to inspire your child
to do well, you don't want him or her to think
that grades are everything. Indeed, many
students who have had academic problems
early on have found solutions through proper
learning techniques presented with support and
understanding. Therefore, if your child tries to
do well yet brings home a disappointing grade,
you should applaud your child for the effort
and assure your child that you are confident he
or she can improve. Doing otherwise may
produce so much stress, your child may
actually continue to do worse. If your child is
taking a test and thinking about your negative
reaction to bad grades, he or she will have too
much stress to think straight for the test itself.
Fear thrives on such a vicious cycle.
When approached with compassion, your
child will be inspired to do well -- and may
even study harder to repay the confidence and
kindness you have shown. That doesn't mean
you should pass off poor grades as
unimportant, but keep in mind you're not
going to accomplish academic success through
anger or disappointment.
Another way your child can reduce stress is to
avoid last minute studying. I always
recommend that students turn away from their
books and notes at least one hour before any
test. Hurried, last-minute studying works for
very few students; all it really accomplishes is
more anxiety. The old saying is true -- if you
don't know the material an hour before the
test, you most likely won't know it within the
hour.
If your child complains of test anxiety during
the test, tell him or her to take a few deep
breaths when the stress begins to hit. Deep
breaths help break the cycle of stress and can
do wonders to clear a test-taking child's head.
The bottom line is this: Good grades and
academic excellence should NOT come at the
expense of your child's mental well-being.
Nothing good has ever come from undue
stress, and no single test or set of tests is
worth the problems such anxiety can cause
your child. If your child is experiencing
unhealthy levels of test stress, you should
seriously consider consulting a professional
counselor trained in dealing with such
problems.
Rewards and Incentives
There are many ways to reward your child's
academic successes. While many parents
structure this around financial incentives, I
tend to believe that such rewards are better
suited for chores and allowances as opposed to
grades. While academic success certainly can
lead to greater financial rewards as your child
becomes an adult, that is not -- nor should it be
-- the reason your child learns.
Education is not really about jobs -- it is a way
of life. There are a great deal of positive
benefits from an education that have little to do
with money. First, there is the satisfaction of
accomplishment. Second is the mastery of
knowledge that leads to better citizenship.
Perhaps most important is that education tends
to be handed down, from serious parents to
high-achieving student.
Therefore, rewards for learning should be
intrinsic in nature. For example, you should
take an active interest in your child's academic
success, praising the good grades received. If
your child's grades are not exactly as you
hoped, yet your child is making a sincere
effort and doing the work, you should shower
your child with encouragement for the effort,
inspiring him or her to achieve.
In Conclusion
You must...understand that children learn via a
variety of different styles. Some learn best
through what they hear, others learn best from
what they can picture, and others learn using a
combination of styles. The point is Don't use
Study Skills for Kids to try and change your
child's natural style of learning; rather, have
them incorporate its lessons in the manner that
suits them best. The main thing to do is to get
your child studying on a consistent basis. If he
or she finds other methods that work better
than those outlined here, encourage your child
to use those methods on a consistent basis.
Study Skills for Kids is not the last-word in
study skills, but merely a beginning for a
life-long love of learning.
I truly believe that Study Skills for Kids
gives you and your child a sound beginning
and I hope you find it valuable. But always
keep in mind that you must be careful to
balance your desire for your child's
achievement with love, understanding and
compassion. Indeed, love, security, and
support are truly the most valuable gifts you
can ever give to your child.
All excerpts from Study Skills For Kids,
copyright © 1996, Michael B. Kassel
All rights reserved.
Here is a helpful web site:
http://www.ed.gov/parents/academic/help/tools-for-success/index.html